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SOME COMMON
MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT SEX
- The penis can become erect at very early stage, especially in a
young man. This does not mean that he is necessarily ready the for
intercourse and he may start too soon - before his partner feels
ready. She may become anxious as she feels she is keeping him
waiting.
- Vaginal lubrication may remain hidden especially in lying down
positions. Both partners may assume she is not responding, when in
fact she is. Penis gives a more obvious signal which the vagina may
not.
- Arousal comes in waves in both the man and the woman. This is
normal. The decline doesn't mean that something is wrong.
- Premature ejaculation (coming too soon, before the partner is
ready) is normal in young men, particularly when very much aroused.
Control comes with learning and practice.
- Many women may not have orgasm but are fully responsive. This
doesn’t mean that they are frigid.
- Early sexual relationships may not have orgasms in women.
Partners need not worry. Anxiety further inhibits it.
- The husband snoring one minute after ejaculating can produce
resentment if the wife is still feeling the need for intimacy. The
men have their refractory period (time during which sexual arousal
is difficult) very fast. Woman need not feel upset (as if being used
as a sleeping pill) - you can wake up your husband sometimes and let
him know.
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